I feel we should let our new friends know we are in a relationship so that he or she doesn't begin to form anger when they find out. It is best not to call any relationship serious until you are married because even after marriage, relationships can break. We must be careful!
To the issue at hand
That young man should not allow his mother push him into wahala ooo because marriage is not a joke. Moreso mothers who push their children into marriage also dictate for their children because they believe the children ain't matured.
The young man should not have sent money for any surgery because no be him send the lady for abortion.
As for his so called best friend leaking his secret to his new girlfriend, I feel he should cut off from such a friend and his new girlfriend.
My candid advice to him is to begin anew and never entrust anyone with his secrets.
That young lady making noise, she no get past?
See kettle wey dey call pot black.
Brother, sofri calm down first. You will find true love again but please, do not use your bad experience to hurt the person you will meet later.
Yeah, mama... Thank you very much for always being there. 💗