RE: Is The Bill His Alone To Foot?

[turpsy]

I really appreciate your post. Found it through the africapost. It is worth reading.

Sometimes we just don't wait every time for the man to do everything including things that on a normal day we can afford as the lady or the woman, just because he is the man... the "daddy"

In my experience outside the shores so far, the bill is not the husband alone especially when both are working. The bills are almost taken care of in an agreed way and it doesnt bring issue. It just their way of life. Even up to the girlfiend/boyfriend relationship. That makes me think always why africans/nigerians will shift every expenses to their husband and then complain again about the husband/boyfriend not being caring. Too much of responsibility can confuse the happiest man. Good post @gloglo

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[gloglo]

Exactly @turpsy, am glad to see from your own line of view. Most women do that a lot and I think the man gets choked up in that wy. Thank you for being here, we learn everyday and you have taught us all something new to go by with. Thank you a lot.

[honourmaus]

Here I learn another thing ògbéni turpsy,

Too much of responsibility can confuse the happiest man.

We are making good sense here

[turpsy]

hahah, the person that bears ògbéni is actually my governor. I am not proud of him mhen.