Hunting and fishing

We live in a male-dominated world.

Some of you might ask: how come? Men and women have equal rights in most of developed countries! Yeah. But women who fought for those rights and who have them now are even more masculine than men. Now our world is dominated by masculine energy even more than it was during old-school times.

In the world ruled by men and masculine women the main force is anger. Not in it's bad interpretation. Anger as an active, conquering energy.

At the beginning of times our ancestors had 2 ways to get food: hunting and gathering. Let's not talk about gathering, as there you don't deal with other living-being (well, plants are alive too, but they don't make any visible resistance against being picked up or eaten).

When we talk about killing and eating other living-beings, there are 2 strategies: hunting and fishing. Hunting is an active pursuit. It represents masculine energy. Fishing is the opposite – you just sit and wait till the fish comes to you. But don't forget to attract it with something, like promises that would support his unrealistic expectations.

Evolutionary, mating is designed this way: men are supposed to be hunters, while fishing is a female thing (not real fishing I mean, just a dating strategy).

When the man makes efforts to get his female of choice, woman just has to be attractive and wait for that conqueror.

But in modern world gender roles are twisted. Every sphere – social life, politics, family-building strategy – is affected by this twist.

I've heard one opinion, that if The United States has a female president, their international politics would be less aggressive. I don't agree with that. Having a masculine woman as a president is even worse than having a male in White House (please don't misinterpret, that's just an example, I don't support any political party and in general I don't give a shit about politics, especially in America as I'm not from there).

Nowadays it's not about a physical gender. It's about energy and behavior. We live in the world of dudes with lipstick and chicks with moustache.

When dating we use hunting or fishing strategy as well. Pros of hunting – you see what you are running after. Cons – you are not sure if you'll catch your pray and the process itself is exhausting. Pros of fishing – almost no efforts, just patience. Cons – you don't know what to expect, as your pray is under the surface.

Mystery of not knowing what to expect can be exciting. But not in modern world. If you are a princess, staying at a castle – that might be intriguing to find out if it's a handsome prince or a beast saving you from a dragon. Now it's different. If you are a business-woman, running 2 companies and one side-project, attending yoga classes and working with a life-coach – there's no time to waste waiting for the prince, a beast or a dragon. That's why many women at this time consider hunting to be their primary strategy. But it's masculine initially! Then same women complain that men either reject them or don't treat them properly. For sure! Females are not supposed to be hunters. And when you hunt, what your pray does? Runs away!

Then all the questions arise in women's heads: "What's fucking wrong with me? I'm not ugly, not stupid, successful, I don't play mind games... Why do they reject me?"

There is nothing wrong. Just some women are too masculine. Men don't feel like men next to such a woman. Even if he's not Alpha, every male needs a room for his masculinity. At least let him open the wine bottle.

Same thing works the other way: many women feel insecure, 'cause their men are too feminine. Some say it's a fault of mothers, who pamper their sons too much. Others say it's a fault of feminists for the same reason, I've mentioned above.

But let's forget about reasons. Right now we have a reality of twisted energies and gender roles, what can we do with that?

First of all, disclose our feminine side. It applies to both men and women. Being feminine doesn't mean being weak or passive. In fact Ying energy is extremely powerful. Think of water. It can be a lake or a stormy ocean. A quiet rain or a hurricane. Feminine enegry is a power to generate and accumulate potential. When the impulse (masculine by it's nature) occures, the act of creation happens.

And now, my dear ladies, we need to learn how to reveal feminine energy. No, we don't have to be "girly-girls" all the time. Some things, like a career, business, competition require us to be masculine regardless our sex. But we need to learn how to switch modes. Be strong at work. Be soft and gentle with your life partner. That's important. That's essential, unless you wanna be a mother-like figure for your boyfriend/husband.

Then – my dear beloved gentlemen, you need to make some efforts too. If you are confused because females around or just your special one is too masculine, I'll give you a tip on how to awaken feminine energy in a woman.

Science and society in general say that a female needs to be secure and protected by a male, so the more alpha you are, the more women love you. Not anymore. It doesn't work with a masculine woman. She is already secure and protected. She doesn't need you for that. If you try to play Alpha, she will see you as a potential threat or a competitor. So forget about security.

Except of safety, every woman needs to be desired. She's craving for admiration of her beauty, both inside and outside. Give that to her. Show as much affection as you can. I know it can be hard, sensuality and affection are not really "male" things, but you have it inside. Just reveal those qualities. Worship her beauty, then your woman will bloom.

To summarize, we live in a transition time. Roles get twisted, people get confused – all because we are moving from duality to higher level of organization. And during this vulnerable time, it's very important to be aware of every side of our multidimensional being. It's very important to help each other, rather than compete.

Much love, ladies and gentlemen.

Stay balanced!