You are old enough to date. You'd like to find someone who is attractive and who shares your ideas. in the past, though, each time you tried to start a relationship, you felt as though you crashed and buried.
If you'd like to get to know a girl better, what factors do you need to consider?
What to do first
Before you decide to pursue a particular girl, there are some basic skills you need to master, and these will help you to be friends with anyone. Consider the following.
Cultivate good manners
Good manner shows that you respect others and that you are developing a mature personality.Remember to find out the type of person you you really are, a discerning girl will look at the way you treat others especially members of your family.
Maintain you personal hygiene
Good hygiene shows respect not only for others but also for yourself, if you respect yourself, others are more likely to respect you. On the other hand, if you let your hygiene slide, you will sabotage your efforts to impress a girl.
Cultivate conversation skills
The basis of a lasting relationship is good communication. This involves discussing not only your interests but also the interest of your friend.
The Next Step
Take the initiative
If you think a friend whom you admire might make a good marriage mate, let her know you are interested in her. Be clear and forthright in declaring your feelings. Yes, it can be nerve racking. You fear rejection, but your been willing to take the initiative is a sigh that you have grown.
Respect the girl's decision
What if your friend says that she doesn't want a more serious relation with you? Dignify, her by believing that she knows her own heart and that her no means no. It betrays a lack of maturity if make a pest of yourself. Really. if you ignore girl's explicit rejection of your attention even becoming provoked by her rebuff are really thinking of her interests or your own?
What Not to Do
Don't Flirt
A flirt uses flattering speech and provocative body language. He has no intention of pursuing an honourable romantic relationship.
Don't toy with a girl's feeling
Dont expect that friendship with the opposite sex will will operate according to the same rules as frienship with same sex. Why? Consider. If you remarked that a male friend looked good in his new suit or you regularly talked to that friend and confided in him, it is unlikely that he would think that you are romantically attracted to him. But if yu compliment a girl on her appearnce or regularly talk to her and confide in her, she may well think you have a romantic interest in her.
Be realistic
It's unrealistic, even egolistic. to think that all girls will take you. But some will if you remember this; How you look on the outside is less important than what you are on the outside.
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