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Is he completely lazy? A lot of women are better at organizing stuff. He ought to be able to cook and stuff for you once in a while.
I feel like you are giving me a one sided story. It sounds like he should help you out more but do you have a fenced in backyard to throw the kids out the door? ;) lol
For some reason you seem like you would be difficult but you are a woman so that is totally legal and understandable. ;) lol If I was him I would probably try and work more and cut expenses and hire a maid to help you out. :)
You could also get a Dyson vacuum so you have to vacuum less often. lol

And this is why men get served divorce papers, and have "no idea what happened".

LOL If he made more money and hired a maid would that save him? The kids aren't old enough to do all of the housework yet? ;) lol I think children are cheaper then a maid so I think he should bribe them to help out more. :) #problemsolved jk

If men acted like grown-ass men in marriages rather than giant man-babies, I think it would save a lot of relationships. ;)

Yeah I'm totally a grown 18 year old man. :) lol It still would be nice to have cooking help. I REALLY could probably use a personal chef #starvationavoidance although I am pretty awesome at wood fire grilling.