I'm just speechless with all these analysis you have made. You are able to search into each gender's role when it comes to relationship... You have done a good job.
What I suggest to be the solution is that each sex should never stop courting even in marriage, it is the most beautiful part of relationship. The bound at this stage is just too high.
Though, it might not be as frequent as it used to be before marriage, because the both party need to face the reality after their games... Lol, but nothing should take the place of courting.
Indeed.
and when the courting is done from a place outside the game, that is when the two people are aware of the duality and the courting game, then it's even more fun. Why? because there is no emotional drama, and the senses are more open to experience the interaction.