We resist change.
Sometimes, our partner might want to change things up or do something new that we've never done before. Instead of being excited and embracing it because change can be scary, even joyous, we sometimes hold our partner back or come up with excuses not to do it.
It's funny; a lot of us get bored in our relationships when they're long-term. And they're the same thing repeatedly, but then we resist the change when it comes up.
We live boring lives.
Many people live very dull lives. We have routines and habits, and there's nothing wrong with that. But the problem is that we often blame our partners for it. We assume that we didn't accomplish our goals or dreams because of them. We didn't realize we would be in the same position no matter who we were dating.
Sometimes, Divorce sounds better.
Some people would rather go through Divorce than put in the work of fixing their relationship. If you think about it, there are a lot of situations where you could resolve the issues in the relationship if you wanted to. Get counseling and make massive changes. And I'm not saying you should stay in a relationship if you're incredibly unhappy. But sometimes, we willingly choose to throw in the towel. And sometimes, we'd instead break off our relationship to avoid changing our behaviors. That seems silly because when you enter the next relationship, your behaviors will probably cause the same problems you currently have with your partner.
We don't want to make sacrifices.
It sucks to be in a relationship and not get what you want. We don't want to make the sacrifices that we need to. To make things work. We're always looking for convenience and ways to make our lives easier. It makes sense. But sometimes, we get so wrapped up in it that we forget. The sacrifices are necessary to do what we want out of life. Our default may be to impose the sacrifices on our partner, So we don't have to endure them. But overtime that can wear down our relationships.
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