Oh, I was able to talk to him about having my heart broken, otherwise it would just be very confusing with me crying all the time during that haha. When other minor stuff happened, like if someone I was seeing was being a knob or anything romantically related to someone else I could just talk to my best friend instead. While it would have been great to talk to my partner about it I still felt it was worth it to have this rule and it worked well for us. Everyone is different and every relationship is unique, this rule would perhaps not work with other partners. And when he asked me how my day had been when I had been with someone else I simply said everything but left out the sex stuff, so it was not fully lying, just not telling the full story :)
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