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RE: I've never had casual sex and I want to open my marriage

in #relationships8 years ago

@stephthegeek and I are polyamorous and cultivate multiple relationships. It can work really well with two major tools:

  1. Intentionally over-communicate. Talk about everything. Share all of your feelings. It's ok to be conflicted. Every feeling of jealousy is an opportunity to work towards compersion and become a more generous partner.

  2. Google Calendar. Calendar everything. I can't stress enough how likely you are to double-book dates.

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I would not have thought of #2. I suspect that may be a great help.