easy: proud people become blind to their own weaknesses and make mistakes.
humble people are more prone to find a win win situation than a personal victory, accomplishing bigger things.
humble people are less prone to making mistakes because they don't just expect success
people who consider better what others have to say tend to consider more things, and more possibilities open up when interacting with them, plus there is the benefit that they listen to you too ;)
also, serious people are hindering themselves every step of the way, I look for those that are sincere without being serious, those people display strength of character and are natural leaders.
Think for a moment about who you've cooperated with and assisted the most in your life, was it people who were so proud they just dismissed you? or was it people who gave you their own time and consideration, your cooperation and assistance benefited them and they would never have had that power without their social strengths and ability to see your virtues.
These are examples of two of the countless subtle traits that can make people stronger in an immeasurable way, mastery of ones own nature necessarily includes a cultivation of a humble and sincere mind, because within that lies greater strength.
I'll ask once more...
Examples to clarify, and not further descriptions, please...
That's not an example of anything.
That's just silly.
You do know about exhibition fighting, yes?
My limited experience in wing chun wouldn't succumb to that! lol
(Or my thai boxing,)
No offence mate, but how old are you?
(I've lived with a buddhist for over 5 years, btw.)
Do you agree with Trudeau's message of 'if we kill our enemies, they win.' philosophy?
lolol
How old are you, again?
enemies, not some random person
lmao...
When your 18 (and a half) , we can chat again..lol
good luck.