You are most welcome. Im glad it makes your day. Who havent paid their debt? That must be so irresponsible human being. I would have to agree as well, that debt must be paid.
Waalaikumsalam . My mother said I should tell those people to leave the kids alone because they did nothing. Using children to win an argument is the most lowest moral and eventually I feel sad by reading it.
As I was saying on my page, a Narcissist will try to display or used something to make their victim felt useless and downgrade them even humiliate their victim accordingly to their needs. The satisfaction really makes them hungry to win. Even have to make up stories as such.
From my point of view, as u said the Narcissist admitted that it was her who peed on the floor, I was amazed. A Narcissist will never admit their fault, now Im wondering if she really a Narcissist or maybe she's trying to stop you from asking who did the peeing. Did she get angry and asked the kids to use another toilet so that you won't have to clean it?
Just so you can use it without blaming her kids. Maybe...
Thats just my opinion. Btw, I was still shocked she admitted it. That is not a Narcissist trait. They will never admit even they have to bring their lies to the grave. Is there any Psychiatrist that closer to you? You might need a favor. As a Narcissist Survivor, Im giving you my experience. It helps. Sorry, for the long messages.
May your day be calm and have a good rest, it can helps you to think straight. Than you. ❤️
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I read it. I know you found out and she admit it. But it might happen for a reason. Right? She knows you have complaint about it, then why she still do it? Because in order for you to caught it, you need to be in the same toilet with her. Isn't it weird? She let herself get caught?
Anyways, about the mother who had brainwashed by the Narcissist daughter,did she aware of what happening? I mean she should know which is right and which is not.
As my Narcissist partner, his mother knew him so well and did advice me for few times if I can handle his son? She knows better that her son can't be a good husband. She know her son so well that she was afraid he's gonna hurt me and she didnt want another woman to get hurt again because he have done it before to others.
I should have listened to his mother. She did warned me. Now I know why she did that. She even lived in one. Even worst she was mentally and physically abused. So she know how I would feel.
Well, things happened. Whatever it is, I will never accused him of things that he didnt do. Ive been writing about religion? Because he admitted to me even his mother knows it. He loves to eat pork. He sleeping around as well.
Your Narcissist had a one night stand and were proud of it? Same like mine. He even proud to list their name with age on his phonebook. She still believe in her religion? Thats good, people can repent. I hope she did. Because compare to all the sins she have made, if she did repent and asked for forgiveness to God, In Sha Allah she will. At least she still have it in her heart.
I pity you that you were trick into married her. But how did you get tricked by her? She drugged you? Were you threaten by her and the mother? I didnt know that there are still a man that can't say NO or just tell it straight to their face.
My marriage with my Narcissist partner also only last for half year. I pity his father that have to drive us to Papar so that we can get married. In the end my partner said he never want to. I felt that he have been playing with me,his family and my family into getting married. I still remember we had to wake up early from Cyber City to Lok Kawi and met his dad. For nearly 2 weeks but it cannot settle.
We even went back to my hometown in Sandakan, all our things were packed and brought to Sandakan. If he really don't want to, he could have stay because it was closer to his mother. Why bring all the stuff if he have plan to leave? Why he went to Sandakan with me? Its still a question. My mother really regret having him stayed in our house for almost a year. From Sept,2020 until End of Aug, 2021. My mother have to feed him,give him place to stay for free and now he said me and my mother steal from him.
But its ok. Normally this will be temporary. Life have to move on. Just take this as another lesson in life. I do not wish to write a story about his family. Because I know all their good and bad. It would be better to keep it to yourself. I was accused of so many thing and was defame by him. I let it rest now. As long as I admit to all my wrong doing and repent rather then live with a lie. Funny thing was, he was the first one who went and seeing a Psychiatrist but I was the crazy one as he claimed in a written summoned.
Man, I wish he can swear to the quran and said all the claimed that he accused me and let God bring the justice.
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Thats why you should read more about it or should i send the link why they coming back? Its written everywhere . Most toxic relationship and NPD the woman will stay until one another left. Just try and ask your mother. Maybe she have the answer. Who knows she have dealt with one. ✌️😊
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