Last Friday we came home after a, in total, 24-hour trip. From Bangkok to Hong Kong, then on to London for a 4 hour stopover, and then we finally arrived in Dublin around 11 pm. I was too tired to make the 2.5 hour long car trip back home, so I slept for a few hours in the car before driving home. We arrived to a cold house, and I decided to stay up and just have an early night instead and try to get back to normal and beat the jet-lag. The thing is though: the jet-lag still got its clutches in me, and nothing is 'back to normal' after this Steemfest. Don't worry, there is no sadness here. Yes, I have come to the 100% realization that I definitely want to make my (our) way back to South East Asia. This whole trip was one huge reminder of how much I loved this place, how well I adapt in Asia and how I feel when I'm there. There's really nothing like it, and the same is the case for this Steemfest that just passed.
The third time's a charm - No, a dream!
And that's exactly what it was, for me. This Steemfest was my third. I was in Lisbon and in Krakow and both of those were absolutely amazing and it was hard to express what it felt like to have been there.
But this one? An absolute dream. This weekend back home, I've woken up at strange times and every time I do, I realize that I was there, in Bangkok, with approximately 150 other Steemians, and it feels very surreal to say I did everything in my might to make it there and spend that time with those people.
What were my expectations?
To be very honest, I had little to no expectations. I've learned over the past few years that this is something that I need to do for myself in order to prevent disappointment. Not particularly in regards to Steemfest, but with everything in life.
However, I was still a little disappointed when I discovered that only around half of the people of the previous 2 years showed up this time. But of course, I can't speak for anyone but myself. Personally, I made it my priority to make it there this year, and trust me, it took a lot. I did this because it was important to me to make it. But I know like no other how life, work, and other factors can get in the way, so I don't blame anyone for not being there this time around.
In the end, it turned out to be a good thing.
Because there wasn't such an overwhelming number of people, we all had the chance to meet and talk to most others and really get to know them, instead of just spending two minutes with one person and then move on to the next. There was more a feeling of familiarity than I ever had in the two previous years, even though a lot of my friends from those years weren't there this time.
What I got out of it this time around?
I didn't go for anything in particular. Just like in previous years, I hardly attended any of the speeches. I saw a few, but I feel that connecting to the people in person, listen to their stories, their ideas, and hopes, is much more important than listening to every speech there is.
And that, I believe, I did. I decided to do my own round table discussion as a last-minute thing, and since there was little to no information about it for most people (unless they really searched for it) I nearly had to drag people into the room to listen. Thanks to @anomadsoul, who literally told people to come and support me, I actually had a few Steemians there. Again, I came with nothing. I had nothing prepared and basically just told them my thoughts. It was completely organic, and the same goes for the responses I received. I walked out of that room with new inspirations and ideas, and it was so much more than I would have ever imagined. Later, I spoke to a few others about it, and in the same way, I got new energy and inspiration to get things going, new things to think about and do. All in all, it was very productive for me, and you will all hear about it in time. I have work to do! That's for sure. To be continued...
The people, the love, the laughs, and the Sangsom...
Proof-of-hug by @arcange and @starkerz
Proof-of-hug by @arcange and Mr. and Mrs. @blocktrades
Proof-of-hug by @arcange @lizanomadsoul and @martibis
And with these guys I literally had to run around them to get a proper shot of their proof-of-hug. There was just so much hugging going on. Isn't it adorable? Excuse the picture quality, it was late...
Proof-of-hug by @goblinknackers and @stoodkev
Steemfest is not just about having a great time with friends, some of which became more like family. Of course, it's a huge part of it, but it's not just that. It's not your average 'conference' about all things on the Blockchain, or related to crypto. I think I don't just speak for myself when I say that no other Blockchain has anything like it.
It's not just about how we can improve on a personal level or how we can improve our beloved blockchain and platform. It's not even about all our individual stories. It's so much more than that. It's all those stories combined, all talents combined, all the proof-of-hugs, and all of our individual and collaborative work we each put into it. For me, there's really no other way to explain it. It is what it is. But for me, a journey that started with no expectations at all, turned into something so huge, that I can't even begin to express what exactly it is. All I know is that this Steemfest was the best one yet (although I predicted that much) and that I have very high and renewed hope for our Steem future.
The best picture I got of the two of them. Do we call it proof-of-laugh? @starkerz and @theycallmedan
There's so much more behind the serious faces of these Tres Amigos... @starkerz, @theycallmedan, and @anomadsoul
One last thing...
In my first post from Steemfest in Bangkok, a few weeks ago already, I told you about how I got a tattoo. Some people even thought it was a joke. It was not.
Yes, it was a spur of the moment thing, but not something I did without any thought. I had always wanted to get a tattoo in Bangkok, when I was there and I never did. When I saw the tattoo artist in Patpong, I just knew I had to do it, right there and then.
But the text was something I had already thought about before that.
It's part of the lyrics of a song by One Republic, called "Counting Stars".
You can look up the lyrics yourself if you like, but when I heard the song some time ago, and truly listened to the lyrics it felt like these guys have the right idea. 'No more counting money, we'll be counting stars' I love that.
But to me, the text I chose 'Everything that drowns me, makes me wanna fly' means as much as: I will not be tied down by anything or anyone. This trip to Thailand was proof of that, and it opened my eyes to the possibilities we all have. To me personally, it's that I don't have to be tied down to one place. In my case Ireland. Two weeks before Steemfest, there was no hope for me to go. None. But nevertheless, I made it happen. Yes, I had to take out a loan to do so, but it's worth every cent. I'd do it again in a heartbeat. And I think the same can be said about Steem: it can not be tied down by anything or anyone. It's in all of our hands, and it's up to us what we do with it.
Let's count those stars...
Thank you for reading!
Love your story! It was my first steemfest and wasnt expecting much too. Heck my attitude was lackadaisical days before i was about to embark for the SF event, now 2 weeks had past and i still look back at all the fun i had at SF. It was truly a one of a kind experience and barring any emergencies or financial troubles, im pretty sure ill be attending the next one. Pleasure to get to know you there by the way!
Thank you! Same here! It was a pleasure :) Yes, one Steemfest usually does that to people. There's huge FOMO going on to get to the next.
Everything that folds me, makes me erect. Everything that fails me makes me more direct. Everything that aches me, makes me take a nap. Everything that scares me makes me take a crap.
Ha, miss you lady Vegas!
Hahahaha, a rhyme like that could only come from you. 😂 Not sure if any of that would have worked as a tattoo though. I guess the second one is pretty decent. Miss you too Mr. @buttcoins! They can take away our freedom, but they will never take the memories LOL. By the way, I have the footage of your talk, not sure if anyone posted it yet, but I will. Just have to edit two videos together because my phone doesn't do more than ten minutes of video. But that talk was the best!
yeah i agree, his talk was the best! i was on the verge of falling asleep and when he came on stage, i was energized and brought back to life by his presentation! haha @buttcoins you rock man!
looks like a great party
There's nothing like it... ;)
Great times and great hugs @misslasvegas, SF4 was the bomb.
It absolutely was! And I believe you're still after partying :) I'm sooo jealous! See you next year!
The beach nearby is having a jam every night. I picked a good place :)
See you next year!
What a good summary of the experience, @misslasvegas. I approached this differently than you, but still made it work. All I know is that I will be there next year too - where ever that might be. The difference between "before" and "after" is worth the whole trip. See you then :)
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Yes, I think most of us all approached it differently, and that's perfectly fine. We're all different, and that's probably what made the experience so unique for everyone. Although I think I don't speak just for myself when I say that in the end, our experiences and feelings were all very similar. Yes, the difference between before and after definitely made it worth it. There's no going back after a first Steemfest is there? Can't wait to see you next year! Much love to you lady. xxx
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Aw, adorable proof-of-hugs!
I agree :) There's something very adorable about people hugging :)
@misslasvegas, .. i look way too comfortable in that pic, ... i think it was quite late and i may have fallen asleep, .. lol, .. a great time was had indeed, .. feel like going back :-)
Yes, you were very comfortable LOL. And now I have picture proof. Someone called me a liability at some stage hehe. I take that. Loved the photo, you're both adorable ;)
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Thank you @arcange! It was lovely to meet you again, and actually talk a bit more. Seeing you dance and hug made my year! See you next year!
u rock!
was great to talk! Cheers!
No, YOU rock! I enjoyed the company of your team, you guys are fun people :)
That tattoo is fantastic I love it. It's great to see those hugs. I would have given anything to be there. Have you got a photo of you hugging anyone?
Thank you! Yes, Steemfest was amazing. No, unfortunately, I don't have any. Others might, but I don't. I am usually the one behind the camera, but I did get caught off guard a few times.
@misslasvegas
Thank you for your post.
I was reading up on Steem and learning what the community was doing in eco-living from one of @revisesociology's articles when I came across some of your comments. I didn't even know people from across the world got together to talk about Steem.
Traveling across the globe must have been excellent. It was entertaining to read about your adventures and thoughts.
Hi @scholaris! Thank you for your thoughtful comment. I just love it when people still comment on older posts. That shows they're not forgotten. Yes, Steemians travel all over the world for Steemfest, and this was the 4th one! I feel blessed that I've been able to go to three of them. All were amazing, but the last one was amazing times 100!
It's nice to meet you!
Hi @misslasvegas!
You can’t get a foothold on the future without getting a solid foundation from the past. I’ll always read and comment on articles regardless on its original date.
If my participation with Steem continues to grow I’d love to attend one of those conventions. I think that would be awesome.
Thanks for responding and I hope you enjoy the weekend. I will be experiencing the joys, fears, and dangers of implementing potty training for my child. It’s ok though. I’ve got full hazmat gear and backup on standby lol.
@scholaris
That's funny! Good luck with that. 'This too shall pass'. But yet, I am happy that my youngest is 5 years old and I don't have to go through all the running to the toilet, flying off the highway to find a safe spot for toilet going, or the nuisance when you forgot to pack extra clothes when the child decides he needs to go now... LOL.
And you should definitely try to make it to one of the Steemfests. There's really nothing like it. And it's quite family friendly too!