You are perfectly correct, self control and being truthful is the key. see my up response to @lukestokes comment as it relates to the post too.
I think that you are a lovable person and even if I were to be a catholic Priest, I will still fall in love with you!!!!!!!! because you are a lovable person und Sehr Süß...however I will pray for self control
Lake Titicaca.....Nicaragua! Aqua! For my bunghole....