Today being 22nd of January 2019, I will be talking about inferiority complex and the rudeness and pains associated with it.
INTRODUCTION:
Definition of concept : (What is Inferiority Complex?)
According to Cambridge advance dictionary; inferiority complex can be define a feeling that you are not as good, as intelligent, as attractive, etc. as other people
An inferiority complex consists of lack of self-esteem, a doubt and uncertainty about oneself, and feelings of not measuring up to standards. It is often subconscious, and is thought to drive afflicted individuals to overcompensate, resulting either in spectacular achievement or extremely social behavior.
From above the Definition, its very lucid to understand that inferiority complex is something that makes one feel totally out of his or her environment and makes a person lose focus and self Esteem.. Reduces one to nothing before someone even among his people. According to Alexander Dumas, he said and I quote “A man who doubts himself is like a man who enlists in the ranks of the enemy and
bears arms against himself. He makes his failure certain by being the first to be convinced of it.’ The basis of his statement is all about being inferiority complex.
Inferiority complex doesn't just occur it has so many causes and things which triggers it.
For instance you are 30 or 40 years old and in the same class with people of 18 years of age or there about and to worsen it the guy or lady in this 30's or 40's isn't Intellectually able, there Is no way you would expect such a person not to become inferior, forget about Age difference, that person has already lost focus...
Another example is when a person feels he or she isn't the way he thought people expects them to be and so mingling with people could become hard to avoid the obvious facts of being bad mouthed or being insulted...
Another example is when one finds it hard to express him or herself or when one has a bored life style its usually hard to major up...
Another instance is also what I call status difference, This is a situation where by a person feels his social Status isn't up to his friend, Brother or sister, this Type of inferiority complete is seen among pals, Course mate and friends....
HOW DO PEOPLE WITH INFERIORITY COMPLEX BEHAVE?
They are always termed as withdrawn individuals, they take to themselves and live isolated life style, we also call them Asocial..
Some of them can be Very Annoyed and would pick up on You even when you have not done anything to them..
They are always ready to intimidate if they are older than you, an inferior person puts up everything possible as if he or she is in a competition with some else, they would not attack you openly but would see a reason or way to make you feel as if you are competing with him or her....
HOW THEN CAN INFERIORITY COMPLEX BE CURED???
Simply quote by Having what I call self confidence, self Courage and self Esteem.
Develop a unique life style that makes you different in a very special way and you will see people coming after you...
Love yourself irrespective of the situation you find yourself or anywhere you are, Love and work with people even if you are 20 years older than the person....Always find how to express yourself and no matter the situation don't ever look Down on yourself or yourselves that's very important..
finally Always expect anything from anybody but don't like or allow what they feel or think about you affect you...
Best friendship is when you are 20 and your Best friend is 40 or 45 the Larger the cap the enjoyable the friendship
Deal with your inferiority complex now you still can.... I recommend this book for you as you are planning to cure your inferiority complex , 365 STEPS FOR SELF CONFIDENT by David Lawrence Preston. You can download it via PDF DRIVE.
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