Yes, the whole package, sweet and sour and you are good at accepting/naming the positive connotations and I admire that in you.
Not much time to respond right now, but I thank you for your engaging response and want to let you know that I will be going to bed with this line of yours on my mind as it strikes me in a profound way:
This can go very well in cases where a person is ripe for this loss. For a person who is not ready for it, it can be a catastrophe.
I fear the catastrophe.....