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RE: The Founder of The Secret Writer Reveals Her Broken Heart: Romantic Love Is A Lie

in #secret-writer8 years ago

This piece gave me a lot to think about and stayed my hand in commenting too soon. There's no denying your allegations, that society drowns in false preconceptions about what love is and what being in it means. The pedestal you built up for this person was built with your soul, even if it collapsed in a misguided misunderstanding of his intentions.

Your energy was part of that closed off duality with this one person. Look at the wondrous effect, your love. If the end cannot justify the means, then perhaps what he truly was is less important than the capacity you discovered in yourself to love and be loved, even if the latter was based on infatuation and objectifying you into a muse.

It's only by such understanding of yourself, your energy, which we call heart, that you could even see the duality of romantic love, and that there is an exit sign. There is love in spades, deeper than any romantic or familial love by itself. That we think we could label the most mysterious magic in the universe, categorize and order it to thus control it suggests that romanticism may never die in the universal mind.

Your sharing is a form of love, so thanks for teh energy

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your reply is simply amazing.