It's clear that I am stuck in the first phase. Thanks for that information, I really had no idea, to be honest.
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It's clear that I am stuck in the first phase. Thanks for that information, I really had no idea, to be honest.
It normally lasts two years, then things change :-) The good news is that after the "falling in love" stage, couples go through phases called counterdependence, independence, and (if all goes well) interdependence. Eventually, we accept that the other person is not a superhero, but possibly a good fit to our needs...
So, perhaps that experience was a stage, something to form my future with. But, the problem was the no other person since the artist has been able to evoke those burning sensations. It's like I can never go back to eating Sonic meals when I've tasted food from Spago.
There's plenty whales, dolphins, jellyfish and lobsters in the sea.
Perhaps you were so biased and focused by the past, that you've been missing the present and avoiding the future? The fun of hope and passion is that they can sprout in a moment's noticed, with a force that is disproportionate to 'normalcy'.
@stellabelle
We should be taught ....
The Ancient Greeks’ 6 Words for Love (And Why Knowing Them Can Change Your Life)
http://www.yesmagazine.org/happiness/the-ancient-greeks-6-words-for-love-and-why-knowing-them-can-change-your-life