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RE: Separation Anxiety...

I'm very saddened to hear that you are going through a difficult time right now. I don't know all the details on what is going on, but I can understand that break-ups can be very difficult and especially since you have a child together.

I know that sometimes with my relationship, we have fights and we have broken up before and moved apart from each other, and then we got back together after a period of time. I remember at first it was so hard and I was so lonely, but after awhile with time, I healed and I felt better after awhile. In the beginning it is always the hardest.

Perhaps you both need time to do some reflecting and when you are apart it will give you time to miss each other. Sometimes being together all the time, is not healthy and can cause fighting.

Sometimes, I just want to hear, i'm sorry and to hear that my partner realized what he did was hurtful, if he is in the wrong. Sometimes, I just want to hear that he loves me. Maybe she has a hard time letting you know what she expects from a partner and is expecting things from you that you're not aware of.

Do you think you can both get to the bottom of these issues and work them out down the road? It seems like you're wiling to work on things. Relationships take lots of work and they are challenging, there are lots of ups and downs.

I hope that you can focus on doing on what makes you feel good. A big part of my mental health is exercising and getting out in nature.

Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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Thank you for your concern @shakanin. Like I said I'm not going to go into great detail what happened. It's just complicated and I wish things going on in my life wouldn't of lead to this. Time heals all wounds. I just hope in the end we will get back together living in our house when all of this is done and over.