This millenial generation has grown up thinking that a man should have as much sex as he can, because then he will be respected and that if the woman has as much as she can get, let's just say she wouldn't be that appreciated.
I've got out of that bubble for some time now and see this phenomena as an art so to speak and that if you feel like the need for sex go for it, but make it memorable and different each time, that goes for every gender.
The way you stimulate eachothers brains by showing every part of yourself through various methods is something out of this world.
Isn't that beautiful
And if you don't succeed at "gettin' some" that doesn't change anything about you or your personality and I'm sure you'll be more successful the next day and the day after that, by compounding(pun intented) you will succeed I guarantee.
As a man, it doesn't make you less of a man than any other, quite the contrary, a man that sleeps with some girl he met(doesn't matter where or how) just to add a name on his list is actually having more personality problems.
As a woman, if you just like the fact that you sleep with someone just because you like the feeling, it doesn't have to make you feel bad about it or make you think that you don't respect yourself, it's just how you are and people should accept that.
We have been putting way to much pressure on this thing and for some, this pressure makes them feel trapped and not be themselves. Many people in they're 20's, 30's even 40's that I've met, haven't gotten out of this bubble and you can feel they're pressure.
I know this subject is very broad and it's hard to summit in a few words, but these are my thoughts for now and I'm sure I'll get back to it 'cause it's a neverending subject and I wouldn't want to bore you too much :D
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