(Perhaps now is the time to give this guy's "friend" a hard, juicy slap over his arrogant, sexually loaded, smirking face?)
Two Types of [Sex] Lives
Some people grow up getting jerked off by pretty girls. Others grow up in constant, social isolation, making them believe there's a god, because only a god could construct such a painful existence. The former type of people live their entire lives in pleasure, success and, because things in their childhood and their looks make them attract pretty girls that want to have sex with them. They never lie there in bed, weak to the knee because it will take a giant's muscles to get up the next morning, because will the next day be a day where there is at least some social stimuli, does only more torture await?
(This guy is suffering in silence. Help him for God's sake!)
The Arrogance of their Ignorance
People in the first category cannot fathom the life of those of the second. Whenever they run into someone that has been suffering all their lives silently in social isolation without sex, they give them bullshit advice along the lines of "Just lighten up!", or "Hey, just go talk to her and be yourself. You'll have a girl in no time!". What they don't understand is that they have suffered to such an extent their entire being is full of pain. "You are what you do", so if you suffer every day for twenty years, then you are pain. It can't be turned off just like that, but needs to be worked at, and you as a person needs to heal. You can't just "push through it" like the guy tells you to when he advises you to "just do it". That would be analogous to pushing through the pain of a broken femur at a running contest.
(This is usually not the kind of guy that cries himself to sleep. Source)
Like Night and Day
Having a sex life is like having a never-ending supply of heroin, just waiting for you whenever you get home after work, soothing your mind, body and soul, making it nobody's business for you to fall asleep that night. Unlike these blessed people, the ones that have suffered have a cholesterol off the charts, are stressed out immensely, often can't fall sleep for days on end, and thus more suffering is created, like a non-ending cycle of the torturous absence of that which life really is about. Now, I don't know how many people in the world have the thing called "sex life", but I can't believe it's many, but they have such an unfair advantage in life it's strange why people don't take into account the people who never have sex as the effects of this are disastrous. On top of a decade of pain in the form of childhood trauma, teenage years robbed of sex and a period of high-school of pure apathy, these people are supposed to function around people in category one who fucks hot girls every fucking night. Yeah, does that seem equal to you? While some people have fucked a billion girls by the age of 23, others haven't even started masturbating yet, let alone had sex, and they suffer from it every day. All their senses are on high-alert all the time, because the body needs to relax, but it can't because sex hasn't and does not yet exist in their life.
Footnote: I've never masturbated once in my life, nor had sex
/Deprived Eddie
It comes down to those who see suffering in life as a challenge and those who see suffering in life as a curse, or a cruel trick of fate. Everybody suffers. Some rise to the challenge and some don't.
Now, this might appear harsh, but it's the truth. Life is tough. Life is unrelenting. For a man, doubly so. There is no equality. It's a battle for dominance. Being on the bottom of the dominance hierarchy has serious implications for your health and well-being. You get depressed and sick.
The point of light you need to aim for when dragging yourself out of this, if you have the will, is to realize you need to create a better you, that can stand up against the competition of others.
Have a quick gaze at the animal kingdom, and try to realize that we are not separate from this existence. The truth of life is written in nature.