I have been writing about love, true love and how to find or re-kindle true love.
My previous post was concluded with the following:
Sex is not only the cement that keeps your "love house" together it is also the new coals that you need to keep on throwing into the fireplace to not let the fire go out again.
So today we look at:
Spice up your love life
The key to keeping your lovemaking interesting and fulfilling is to not fall into the same rut every time. Explore different locations, different positions, different times of the day.
Get out of the bed.
Be adventurous and try to make love in other rooms of the house. Before the fireplace or on the couch, in the shower. The possibilities are endless. Even under the stars if your backyard is private!
Keep your clothes on
Dress nicely but sexy and go out for dinner and start sexy talk in the restaurant. Then at home start kissing by the front door like they do in the movies. Create an urgency for each other and remove only the most necessary clothing. This can make for a seriously hot session of sex.
Make it long and slow
This is the opposite of the previous one. Start with a bath by candlelight or a massage. Slowly enjoy each other, lots of french kissing, touching before you start the actual lovemaking. Afterwards just lie in each other arms and let the oxytocin do its magic. Feel how your lovemaking has brought you closer together.
Play an erotic game.
Your partner will need restraint. Show each other what you love and how and where you would like to be touched. Then let him or she try. Keep on communicating and say what feels good and what not. This is an excellent way to get from your spouse what you need without it being criticism.
Use no hands.
Don't touch each other with your hands for an entire session. Just explore each other with your breath, your lips and your skin.
Make a playlist for lovemaking.
Make a playlist of love songs or hot songs whatever you like to enhance your experience in the bedroom. Always try to create a romantic or hot scene.
Make your lovemaking sweet.
Blindfold your partner and place some chocolate, whipped cream or anything that you fancy on the spots you want attention. Then he or she must find the sweet spots.
Plan a sex date night.
Decide on the time and place. During the day send each other sexy messages. Building the suspension and sexual tension. Dress in sexy lingerie and make a night of it. Prepare to go for more than one session of lovemaking. After the first one, just stay close, cuddle up, play your romantic playlist. Go to the kitchen and get a snack but come back to bed. This kind of date nights can do wonders for your marriage and love life!
Find the other you.
If you are normally quiet in bed, throw all restraint overboard and be noisy. If somebody hears you, they must be jealous of the pleasure you are having. If you always wear pyjamas, try going to bed naked! Nothing like feeling each other's naked skin to arouse each other and bring on the desire. Just try to be different than usual.
Just don't be boring!
I am sure you get the picture. It is really not that difficult. Just don't be boring, have some fun, enjoy each other and enjoy your lovemaking. In doing that everytime your love and marriage are strengthened too. Instead of letting lovemaking becomes a boring ritual, it becomes something to look forward too, to anticipate. Make turns to plan the how and when so that you surprise each other.
Thank you for reading! Enjoy the love of your life!
Source: https://www.hercampus.com/school/bc/sex-files-14-25-ways-spice-your-sex-life-0
Images: pixabay.com & freepik.com
I am not yet moved into any relationship, but in my opinion, one aspect cannot be concluded as whole life, same way love making is not everything but it's really important aspect of life, and yes, as we in normal life tend to explore new stuff, same way relationship should include that art of exploration because that will hold the excitement in an relationship and in turn it will prove fruitful. Thanks for sharing. 🙂
Depending on the security in your relationship (and honesty), it can be fun to play - together - with others - to spice up a dull sex life.
I have seen really good relationships - loving relationships - fail - because of unanswered desires and a lack , or fear, of just being honest...
It definitely depends on trust and truthfulness...