Yep I understand the reasoning and there is still real danger if one you actually starts having sex with another. Talking about it and the reality of it can be two completely different things.
I have had this kind of open relationship and it did not work out well over time. I am still suffering and we are still working on repairing the damage. Infidelity can really hurt the other partner and I wish I had not been the cause of so much pain
Agreed, though I think our culture is what makes it so difficult. It’s a very idealistic view and we are a ways away from being able to act this way responsibly. I do hope that for future generations here are different degrees of openness in relationships which aren’t so grossly taken advantage of as they often are.