Who would have guessed spaghetti would lead to this...
The statement "I have felt more alive, more engaged with people than ever before." Says it all for me.
You're a brave man Steven to allow the public into such intimate details of your life. Sex as well as many other pleasures in life have so many taboos. It's always an interesting exploration when someone decides to explore these areas. One has to wonder why the taboos are so strictly observed. Is it fear? Social conditioning? Hypocrisy? Weakness? A demonstration of control? Certainly a discussion topic for the future.