Are you ready to have the time and the orgasm of your life?
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Like it or not most of us do know that our bedroom action could use a boost, in fact a lot of boost. When we do hear other women talk about having mind blowing sex with their partners resulting into multiple orgasms the rest of us who do not even have an idea what an orgasm is tends to feel very much left out. A lot of men and women do say they need to spice up their sex life and make it more fun, playful and adventurous.
In fact most people wish they could have Mind blowing sex. And since sex rates high as one of the most enjoyable pleasure we can experience, the idea of having the type of sex that is mind blowing and unforgettable appeals to a large number of men and women either gay, straight or bisexual.
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Although a lot of people do wish they could have unforgettable sex with their partners, it is still puzzling that most people will settle for less and just have ordinary boring sex that lacks no foreplay, excitement and fun. When you keep doing the same thing in bed over and over again it becomes boring and lacks every form of fun and excitement.
It is also sad that couples do not take time to talk to communicate to each other how they want to be fondled, sucked or played with. Most couples do not share their sexual fantasies with their partners and this leaves them wishing they could do more or have more.
Take your sex life from boring to mind blowing with these simple tips that you wish you knew long ago gotten from the experts:
Just stop faking It
If you want more exciting and mind blowing sex, don’t pretend to like something that doesn’t actually excite you. Never pretend to enjoy a form of sexual act when you actually hate it You should never fake an Orgasm, never. When your partner is doing something you are not enjoying, do let him know so that he does not repeat it next time. Also do let your partner know when him know when something feels amazing, either by speaking up or engaging in some pretty obvious body language. That way there’s no confusion about what you really like in bed.
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Ignore Your Instincts
That stereotype that men are the only ones who crave something new in bed is so untrue. In fact, research shows women are even more likely to be more sexually adventurous. Satisfy your sexual urge by doing something totally outside your sexual script, like making a sex bucket list, living out your wild sexual fantasies, having sex in every room or space in your apartment except your bedroom( Which is only meant for sleeping anyway),having early morning sex before leaving for work, surprising your partner in the shower by joining him and having sex showering together, or even going to a hotel for a distraction-free hookup.
Play Up the Fantasy
So how do you bring up the fact that you want to try a new position or light bondage? Tell your partner about your crazy ,wild sexual fantasies and let him relive it with you.
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Match Your Position to Your Mood
Just like your dates range from romantic to passionate, your hookups should, too. Depending on the mood you’re in, get creative with your sex style. Use the mood you are in to determine the sexual position you will do at the moment. For instance if you are craving emotional intimacy and eye contact you can try the Missionary. Or do you feel like ripping each other’s clothes off the second you get home, try the Upstanding Citizen’s position against a wall. Or are you a woman who wants to take control? Try the Revers Cowgirl. You get the idea.
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Put it in your to do list
You know it, I know it, scheduling sex is not a fun thin. But the flip side is it can just give you a mental heads-up can put you in a sexy mindset all day long. Whether it’s wearing hot new lingerie all day, getting a bikini wax, or simply texting your partner something you’re dying to do later, these little rituals can act as extended foreplay.
Dress the Part
Use pop-up Halloween stores to your advantage, and pick up a few sultry accessories or even a full outfit. When you put on a totally different persona (be it a blonde wig and thigh high boots or a sexy nurse’s outfit) will give you and your partner a chance to play out a fantasies to the maximum. Plus its so much fun.
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Try to take turns
Make foreplay more fun by turning it into a giver-and-receiver game. Decide how much time to spend on each person, and take turns doing whatever you or your partner wants. Then switch. An added bonus is that pleasing your partner can turn you on even more.
Just Go For It
When in doubt, take the reins. If you’re a woman who wants more excitement in bed, it’s great idea to be a little bold and assertive. Just slow down and kiss your partner before changing positions so it doesn’t seem like you’re dissing their moves. For as long as you're talking and listening to each other, you're well on the way to a healthy and fun sex life.
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Build anticipation
Agree on a period of time, say one week, when you won’t have orgasms or penetrative sex. At first, allow only kissing and holding each other. Gradually proceed to touching and stroking each others body, masturbate, try oral sex or whatever feels right for you. Avoid orgasm. At the end of the week, allow yourselves the pleasure of orgasm, through any kind of sex you like. This week may help heighten your senses to all the other wonderful feelings you can share when you’re having sex.
Massage one another
A good massage can help you to have very sensual sex. As part of foreplay, it's a great way to start things off slowly, and relax into the feel of each other’s skin as your arousal intensifies.
However, a simple massage that doesn’t lead to sex can also work wonders for your sex life. A non-sexual massage will refamiliarise you with your partner’s body, likes, pleasure points or areas, reduce stress and reaffirm the intimacy between you two . If you don’t want the massage to lead to sex, discuss this with your partner so you can avoid any misunderstanding.
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The senses
Good sex can embrace all the senses, not just touch. When using scented oil for a massage (don't get oil on a latex condom as this can damage it), music and candles for soft lighting can all be erotic, as well as listening to your partner’s breathing and the sounds that they make. Taste each other mouth and body as you kiss. If you both want to, you could mix food and sex – feed each other something delicious and juicy, such as strawberries and melted chocolates.
Do Whisper
Whether it’s sweet nothings or your sexy intentions, or dirty talk, whispering things to each other can add an extra thrill. It doesn’t have to be during foreplay or sex. Even a sexy phone call can leave both of you looking forward to the encounter later. This works with texts and emails too, but make sure you send them to the right person, and remember that your employer has the right to access your work email, so do be cautious.
Masturbation
Masturbation, either by yourself or with your partner, can be an added bonus for your sex life. Exploring your own body and sexual responses means that you can share this knowledge with your partner. Masturbating your partner can help you learn more about what turns them on. It can also be a useful option if one of you doesn’t feel like full penetrative sex, or if you have different levels of desire.
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Use of Sex toys
If you and your partner both feel comfortable, using sex toys can be a very arousing activity to engage in together. Some people use vibrators (and more) as an enjoyable part of their sex life. If you’ve never thought about using sex toys before, how do you feel about trying them?
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Read a book
There are many books that have exercises and ideas to help you achieve a fulfilling sex life, whatever your age, gender, sexual orientation or taste. If you’ve never thought about buying a book about sex, why not do it now? You might wish you’d done it years ago.
Share fantasies and desires
Everyone has unique fantasies, tastes and preferences when it comes to sex. From earlobes to ankles, hairline to hips, pirates to picnics, don’t be afraid to talk about them. If you and your partner know about each other’s turn-ons, you can make the most of them.
Keep it clean
We’re talking about your general hygiene. You don’t have to keep yourself super-scrubbed: a certain amount of sweat is fine, as long as long as it isn’t overwhelming. But be respectful towards your partner, and wash every day to prevent nasty smells and tastes.
Relax
Sex with a loving partner can be one of the most beautiful and intense experiences in life. Sometimes the best sex happens when you’re not worrying about making it exciting or orgasmic. Relax with your partner, and great exciting fun sex will surely find you.
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