Hello boys and girls,
If you are reading this your might take it for granted but that's exactly why you should read carefully.
My name is Lucas And i will try to share on this platform how to have a more intense and happy sexual life.
I want to clarify that I'm not a fucking "Hitch" or something like that. My intention is to power up something that's already yours.
My Tips are aimed to help men & women since first steps of a relationship and even old couples.
Settle that lets start with something short and easy. The understanding of your partner is the Key to success here.
This is one of the big problems for almost everyone. But actually is our fault and we need to react to this.
The key point is to talk to our partner literally and none. When we touch each other for the first time, for example, there is a lot of embarrassment in the most cases so asking our partner what he/she likes most is a little premature at this point but later in a relation is one of the keys of success.
But lets start from the beginning, at the first touch we might be in a bed/car/motel/park is all same the point is to think for the Dominant part of the couple.
There is always one conducting the game, some time is the man sometimes is the woman but usually, on a 7/10 balance, every girl likes to be conducted in a sexual related situation. Most women like the man to be determined even if a woman from the feminist part or an emancipated manager, doesn't matter in a bed like in a danceHall the men as to be the predominant part.
But wait, predominant/determined does not mean rough.
And this is very important to clarify, cause I'm not talking about rough sex wich can be beautiful & exciting, I'm talking about the manners to make your way from the first time to the sex wich is most suitable for the couple (gentle, submissive, rough, roleplay).
What's the key of that? Why most people make sex without doing what they wish to do?
Nobody listens to the partner's body. Don't make certain moves to stimulate the partner to product signals of like and dislike.
This is actually for both sides, since if the couple is balanced everyone has "the power" to conduct the game. (girl during a top position or during oral sex if you are asking yourself when)
Now moving to practice for achieving a better sexual experience you must start by soliciting and collect information.
Start from somewhere and i suggest from the combo Kissing + caressing. Now image how many kinds of Kissing + caressing you can perform, lets shot some examples:
1.Kiss gently the lips and caress gently
2.Kiss gently the lips and caress gently by alternate pressure
3.Kiss gently the lips and caress with passion
4.Kiss by using more or less tongue. caressing might be very slow or very fast.
5.Lick some part his/her body.
6.Bite him/her
7.Scratch
8.Graze
9.slap
All of this is granted since if you doing it gently and by degrees, you can be refused or invited to continue but no offence will be suffered since you are not rushing.
This is a key point in everything requiring trust.
For example, many individuals enjoy to be insulted during sex and is a fact that hardcore sex is growing since the acceptance of porn in our life. But almost no woman will grant to a guy to call her "slut" at the first sexual experience.
This why? Trust & respect issues that need to be gained and they require time.
So is the same for the "discovery" of our partner.
I will get more into this dividing everything by category and be giving ideas for every aspect of sex.
For now, i hope you enjoyed this and stay tuned for more.
It's a really great idea to blog about creating a truly satisfying, playful, passionate and fun sex life! Even those of us who are more or less happy with our sex lives can always learn and expand. Thanks and followed
Thanks mate !
I'm always afraid to sound arrogant but actually as every advice someone can follow it or ignore it.
I made sex in my life a matter of study. And actually i saw nice result.
Hope to hel someone wich is waiting in the wild for something like this.
Will follow more.
And by the way nice readings at your blog page, followed.
I didn't find your post arrogant at all, keep up the good work!
Thanks for taking a look at my blog and following :-)
You gave me courage of keep it up, just wrote lesson 2 ^^ about the desire and the reciprocal satisfaction.
Thanks for the push @natureofbeing
awesome, so glad to hear it! I'll take a look
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