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RE: Abstinence: For the Love of Yourself

in #sex7 years ago

On the other hand.... you can still have self-worth and self-respect if you have sex with people you want to have sex with.
You can also have a very loving and fulfilled life if you sleep with your partner every day and never marry them.
Chastity does not make you a better person: not judging others by your own standards makes you a better person.

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Where purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable. Sex has a purpose: union and procreation. Marriage has a purpose: union and procreation. The purpose of sex is same with that of marriage. Sex is therefore for the married.
"you can still have self-worth and self-respect if you have sex with people you want to have sex with", but sex is not just for fun or entertainment. You don't go shopping with a helicopter, you don't just have sex with people you want to because you want to have fun. There is something called self-control. Not exercising this is not something to be proud of.
"You can also have a very loving and fulfilled life if you sleep with your partner every day and never marry them", I can't believe you said that. Which one shows true love, sleeping with your partner everyday or making a public commitment to love your partner for life (marriage)?
"Chastity does not make you a better person", you said but you cannot give what you do not have. Chastity when single brings freedom, the kind you know nothing of, the kind your mind is not yet able to conceive.