No! Porn is NOT (a) sex at all! It is a kind of sexual gratification, a release of sexual tension. A good thing and a positive thing if you're oversexed and/or young and your hormones make you basically a jerk. Not such a good thing if you're married (but who knows? some couples just watch it). Not needed (that much at least, people are different) if you're in a good (and sexually rewarding) relationship.
What is really #FakeSex is a sex when a woman cannot orgasm, or she simulates orgasm, or she's thinking about something/somebody else while in bed looking at the ceiling and thinking 'or, the quicker the better', or a man thinking about some porn star during a REAL intercourse (not in porn), something like this.
Well, if you're watching some film, you wouldn't blame them for being fake - they're actors and they're acting, the same in porn.
"Are those actors (usually the women) pretending to experience pleasure? That’s #FakeSex. If you can’t tell the difference between real pleasure and fake pleasure" Oh, baby. You're in a marriage and you don't know women? The don't need to fake it, they can get off on thinking about how much they earn while being filmed, or being sexy on film or something. Actually, for a lot of those women it's not just money, they DO enjoy doing it on camera.
"Maybe the solution starts by shaming the porn industry and those who promote it in its current form." Why not establish some kind of Shariah Law? Or moving to places like Iran? 'Cause it's just that SIMPLE - if you don't want/need/like something, just DON'T watch it.
Boys will be boys (with pretty straightforward kind of sexuality), but they/us better find more healthy venues to use our sexual drive, like being creative, for example
P.S. To porn I prefer cute girls-models posing or teasing or dancing on camera.