Great post @yallapapi!
Ha ha, "Iron John" I got that book for my brother after he divorced this radical feminist who sucked all traces of "male chauvinism" out of his body...
I ended up reading it myself, pretty good, did not manage to finish it, so many symbolic metaphors I started to feel like a "gutted fish", I think both men and women should read that book in "Gender Studies", but I am pretty confident that would never happen...
I didn't know about AOL-chat, ha ha I used it and it sucked...(sorry)...
I knew that the FIRST instant messaging program called ICQ was developed by an Israeli company, I loved that program...
I am not sure why I stopped using it, probably just switched to the next best thing, forgot the password, etc etc...
I probably lost the "core message" of your post by getting stuck on the details in your post, but thanks for giving us #sharkschool I think it has improved the overall writing on this platform at least a little bit, I know my posts are slightly "yallapappified", but I am not sure ALL of my golden hair should be on display just jet, this turd will need a lot of polishing before it shines like gold! 😎
Cheers bro!
(I stopped using discord, took to much of my time, but nice that you find it helpful, I can understand running your own group could be a good thing).