When someone talks about us in the back, that is a sign that we are already in front of them.
When people talk humbly, that is a sign that we are already in a higher place than they are.
When people talk with envy about us, it is a sign that we are much better than them.
When people talk badly about us, when we never bother their lives, it is a sign that our lives are actually more beautiful than them.
And ... when people are not talking about us, maybe they're dead!