If you're feeling helpless and alone and you need to talk to somebody, go out and talk to people. I'm not even talking crisis centers, although those are wonderful for when people feel overwhelmed and hanging by a thread. You can go to one of of those, there are so many loving hearts ready to listen in those places. Or, go to a gas station and strike up a silly conversation about weird gas station foods, candy or silly lottery trivia just to get your mind off what is eating at it and to have a frivolous conversation with another person. We are social creatures and just interacting with others can reduce the stress we feel.
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I was having difficulties and I sold my car to invest in my business and get an apartment near to work. after I pay for the apartment I found out the owner is taking other people money for the same apartment.
The law in my country state they can't do anything as lock him up I have to take him to court thats like in two months. I need the money now!
That's awful! Can somebody you know recommend an inexpensive place to live or perhaps you could work (housekeeping, painting, cooking, etc) for rent? Do you have a receipt for the payment you made for the apartment? Does your town court have information/resources for people who've been victims of theft? Have you begun the process of taking the owner to court? There are many out there with good hearts willing to help those in need. It's embarrasing and frustrating, but sometimes people will hold out a hand when it's needed. Just remember to pay it forward when you can.
When I went to the police station one officer gave me 5 seconds to speak. I smile at him, I then said really then I explain so fast.
I told them they need to investigate he said not until someone else complain about it.
When I call him he run me off the phone boisterously!
Now either I start my own investigation to get other victims to report him or wait until court day.
I do start the court proceedings but that won't end this year.
I sold my car because I don't want to fornicate, beg, or take a loan I was ready to downsize to start a new.
My friends told me don't sell your car.
At least your friends cared enough to give advice. Maybe they will have other ideas? Where I live, the police have a limit to what they can do. They can stop a theft in progress, but after the fact it's up to the courts. Will a bank give you a deferred loan if you show the receipt and give them a copy of the court papers? Could you do some baking on the side to supplement your income? Fornication and begging aren't going to help you in the long run but maybe trading work for rent will. Asking for help and being willing to work it off is NOT begging. You won't be asking for something for nothing. Keep your strength!
THANKS ALOT. I WILL LOOK INTO SOME OF WHAT YOU JUST TOLD ME. I WILL
READING BACK MY OWN POST AND YOUR COMMENTS ALSO GIVE ME IDEA'S HONESTLY YOU REALLY HELP ME AND I APPRECIATE THIS ALOT.
I KNOW MY FRIENDS LOVE ME IN THEIR OWN WAY, BUT ALL I HAVE BEING GETTING FROM THEM YOU NEED A MAN, YOU TOO SOFT AFTER THE WHOLE ARDEAL, SO AGAIN THANKS FOR YOUR ENCOURAGEMENT.
ALSO I NOTICE WHILE I'M READING WHAT YOU SAID MY FOCUS SHIFT OFF BEING SAD OBTAINING WHAT YOU ARE SAYING IN THE COMMENTS.
I'm happy that I was able to give you ideas. Wishing you the best @althea!
I see that the order of our replies are mixed up. Guess we found another glitch with the system.
yes I have a receipt
Hi Pretty Lady! How are you? Have the last couple of days been kind to you?
Yes not bad at all, I found a new shop and I started putting some of my energy into my youtube video's hoping I can get some views so I can start making money. I also have some healthy topics that I'm researching to post on steamit. Thank you so much for caring means alot to me. I red most of your post and i love them
It's good to hear from you! I'll head over and check out your videos in a bit. Nice work with using all that angry energy on something productive. Congratulations on finding a new shop! I hope you have success with that and your Steemit posts! I'm honestly happy to have been here when you needed an ear.
Thanks for your kind words regarding my writing. (I made a weird noise and hopped in place a bit. I'm as emotionally expressive as a golden retriever sometimes.) I also appreciate you re-steeming my post. I hope that you have a wonderful day!