In England it is not such an issue using that word on the ref, but in Spain you say it and no mercy, you are off.
It has been so in Spain, even before Bellingh was born.
So it's a question of the culture of the country you play in.
It's still not proven Bellingh used such a word.
Well I'm sure Flick wasn't a teenager in the days of the Messis, Iniestas and Xavis in Barca, with Pep as the gaffer. You touch any player and a few Barca players will gather the ref like ants around sugar. They knew what they were doing and it put great pressure on the ref to blow in their favour.
So yes, you can choose to do it differently as a coach, that's your choice. Yet you seem somewhat limited. You say you "tell" your players. I thought you should be instructing them and with a fine attached or some other punitive measure to drive it home into their very skulls.
It's a huge battle in the reigning per season, best league in Europe.
But Kolo Muani is scoring and giving assists in Juventus like no man's business. He assisted the goal today.
That's a guy PSG was comfortable enough to sell to Juventus this January.

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Please there has to be a genius as coach of PSG. What's his ne?
BTW, it's a lesson not to be quick to condemn a player, even Antony is scoring and assisting freely in Betis.
The story go clear com may when you go trophyless
I saw a news that David Moyes has won more points than almorin since joining Everton few matches ago.
Two oboros played yesterday but one oboro won
That's a she