I've learned that when you do something with unconditional love, even if it has the potential to hurt others, it WILL work out best for EVERYONE. This is not because of "me" or what I've done, but merely because we are but just spiritual beings that generate energy which the universe use to create what we desire to the best we deserve. It doesn't matter what others think, if you act/do/say with the intention to receive/be/accept greatness, the pure energy would be too solid to be influenced by negative of any sort. Understand yourself completely in strength & weakness. Its then that the Ego, become a tool that teach us self-love instead of self entitlement. 
True wisdom!