Freedom isn't about changing any conditioning. Conditioning just appears, but not for any one. The person thinks that to be free, it has to get rid of the conditioning. It thinks that with time it can be free of this conditioning and then it will ultimately be free, happy and at peace.
The conditioning happens with or without an apparent person. The conditioning was never happening to to anyone.
There is nothing wrong with conditioning, it is the fulness of life appearing as habits, love, anger, sex.
There appears to be conditioning here as Lisa. She has the propensity to be polite and at the same time a bit rebellious. That is not to do with any person who thinks they live in this body.
Only the person thinks they can change conditioning, or not change it.
Why should any conditioning change? There was no one there in the apparent past that was conditioned and there is no one now that is conditioned. Nothing has changed. The conditioning in an apparent past is a story appearing in this. Any conditioning arising now is just an appearance. It's all the same, the same appearance.
The seeming conditioning is freedom, appearing as conditioning.
What a show!
by Lisa Lennon
https://www.lisalennonnonduality.com/