If a man doesn't call you, it's because he doesn't want to call you. If he doesn't invite you to go out, it's because he doesn't want to see you. If he treats you like shit, it's because he doesn't care. If he lets you go, it's because he doesn't want to be with you. When a man says "I'm not ready, but you are the love of my life and the only one I want, but now is not the right time.", it's simply because he doesn't want you. Don't keep playing his confusing games. Don't justify him. When a man wants to be with a woman, he stays with her without lies, excuses, and complications. Stop being genuine and naive, and stop justifying his every excuse and complication and put yourself FIRST. You DO NOT need someone that doesn't know what they want, you do not need someone that doesn't see your worth. You deserve a man that knows your worth and fights for you everyday. Stop breaking your own heart for someone who probably won't even be as good as you expect and give yourself an opportunity to be happy and be with someone who actually deserves you.
Same goes for you, guys!
If she expects you to live life her way, she doesn't care about your desires. If she doesn't help you hustle, she doesn't deserve you. If she doesn't understand that things aren't the way they are in movies, move on, and find someone that understands that people are indeed complicated, and nothing is black and white.
no truer words have been spoken @paragnostandrea. In my own younger life and too many lives of wombn I've worked with over the years lives have been flattened due to waiting for someone to change and see their value...