Sounds like a bad movie script. Geez....how scary can this be? I wish I knew how to help you out. I just wanted to reply so you knew someone was listening or to give you an empathetic ear.
I'd be interested to know the answer as well. I'm resteeming with the hope someone can help you out.
Thanks @countrygirl
You know what I am also thinking - is you change your tags to steemit community to get better coverage or even go to steemit chat and ask for help in there....we have to know someone - who knows someone. Gotta....