'Flagging' and 'downvotes' are still new to me, and I expect none. I read few a times of @haejin's point through some other posting on behalf of him. Because you two have been contributing greatly to Steemit and the growth of newcomers, I wish you two should have worked out together. Individual conflicts arising that's coming out of both of you has raised a 'feeling of fear' in contributing to any post, or blogs even.
I'm sure, there's solution to any problems. Two great people, who have worked hard equally and trying to pull each other- just because of misunderstanding or perhaps, poorly communicating effects us- the newcomers.
I am sure @haejin and you will both sort this out soon, for the better of Steemit.
Merry Christmas to both of you, and to all of us. Cheers