I think we all need a hug once in a while.
I also think that the extremely marked reactions against which you are given negative votes may indicate a lack of maturity, but I also understand that nobody you know likes to disqualify or belittle the content they share.
Nah, this post has nothing to do with the downvotes I get.
Sorry for my poor writing, what I wanted to say is that other people (not your case) might react in a bit of an exaggeration because they felt they were despising what they had shared.