You're definitely on the right track here with your attitude. Your post is eloquent and well written. You're on your way to reach a trend here to be sure.
I think the try and try again mentality is a good one, but the important distinction to make is that value has to be seen as a product of social connections and social impact, when one is dealing with a social network. Rather than blatantly posting things that 'worked for others' it's important to think about what 'works for you' and the kind of people you would like to surround yourself with.
I've elaborated on my views toward Steem marketing and social capital here; please feel free to have a look and see my perspective on it if my comment entices you. https://steemit.com/value/@spookypooky/posts-on-steemit-aren-t-valuable
I feel that our posts touch on similar matter. I enjoy the discussing of matter a lot more than the blatant whinging or the blatant pandering. We're engaging in learning and in refining of our potential as writers and creators.
Steem on and consider me a follower of your work.
Thanks; and nice post Spooky, :-)
CG