I think a lot if people fee the same way. I think it is important to connect with people. When you first join Steem it is often easier to make connections via comments than with new post (that is unless you already have a strong following). I recommend finding a few Steem role models that do what you want to do and then learn from their posts. For me I wanted to be like @reddust because she always was kind in the comment section.
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