Focus your energy to become the IDEAL SPOUSE by doing the following :-
For Husbands -Prov 5:19 Be satisfied and ravished always by her love.
Eccl 9:9 Choose to live JOYFULLY and enjoy life every day with your lovely wife 'cos life is "too short".
1Cor 7:3 Render due Benevolence to your wife by ;
(a)treating her better than she is worth as you overlook her weakness to do her good.
(b) treating her with kindness as you carry out thoughtful actions deliberately to bring her comfort with out her asking.
(c) giving her the good she rightly deserves for being your wife. 
Eph 5: 25-27 Husband should build up the wife with sweet, loving words daily to make her emotionally obsessed with him and physically strengthen to satisfy him in bed.
For Wives - Gen 2: 18; Accept him for who he is totally without conditions, regardless of his flaws
Song of Sol 4: 7; Admire him daily. Deliberately look out for something to compliment about him.
1Thes 5:18; Appreciate your husband always for his thoughtful gestures, whenever he buys something home or helps out at home.
Eph 5:24; Adapt to your husband. Give him what he likes and avoid the things you know he doesn't like. Suggest to him during decision making and support him after decision is taking by him.
May the Lord grant us the grace and courage to put these wisdom tips to practice in our marriages so that we can make our homes the extension of heaven, where God Himself rest His foot in Jesus name.
Good one Brother, Christians need to focus more on marriages. Marriage has gotten quite a bad reputation over the years. Fewer and fewer people are choosing to marry, Meanwhile, more and more children are born to single mothers. God Bless!
..TH
@STEEMCHURCH
Thank you so much @steemchurch.. I believe that Christians need to understand what marriage is all about and not see as unimportant.
This got me thinking
Romance is very essential in marriage, it helps to keep going together
Many marriages are in bad state today because of lack of romance
Over time they both became cold toward each other
Exactly, most people don't even consider it important whereas Romance is the core of Marriage
I strongly believe that Devoting time and attention to your spouse can rekindle the importance of romance in marriage! thanks Abu!
You're welcome Sir.
Thanks for sharing this with us, very nice post from you, Marriage is a beautiful thing. It is God’s creation – the first human institution established by God. (Genesis 2:18-25) God’s plan for marriage mirrors Christ’s love and relationship with His bride, the Church. (Ephesians 5:22-33; Revelation 21:2,9) Marriage is supposed to be a life-long commitment. And if you desire to be married, you must plan for marriage. Love is not blind. It can choose to wear sunshades but love cannot be blind. Ask the right questions before marriage. If you don’t ask the right questions before marriage you will become a philosopher after marriage.
Thank you so much brother Dwayne.
Nice one not long ago some wrote something regarding marriage on steemchurch as if everybody knows i am planning to get married your writeup can help me someday and help someothers too @abushioke thanks for contributing
You're welcome, I wish you the Best of God...
Marriage is a union of blessings,so man should treat it such with caution,love,and romance to get the blessings God promised
Yes it is..
Great advice for both spouses @abuoshioke , hopefully we keep these in mind for when we tie the knot.
Never allow people to decieve you in your marriage always love your wife or husband as christ loves you.
It is your duty to study the gospel together with your family .
God created man and woman and gave them a resposibility to love each other and live foreever he made a man in hs own image , he created a woman out of mans rib and call her a woman.
What then is the respisibility of a man ? He is given that resposibility to always protect jis family and provude the needs and want of his family and that is his work as a father in the house.
For the fact that he made you in Hus image respect your husband or your wife because they are the God you are seeing.
God bless you all
Wonderfully written. We have to put in our maximum effort to make sure the romance and love doesn't vanish. We have to always see her like she's your all. Let us love unlimited
Thank you so much for seeing this in the same limelight as I did.
Nice posts. I appreciate your concern for marriage as that is also my passion. I also blog on Love and Marriage.
Thank you.. I'll definitely check out your blog
Husbands are supposed to focus all their love on their wives. Not on a sidechick.
The Bible asks us to love our wives.
Thanks for sharing
Lol! Thank you..
Stay blessed
Good point bro...
Romance is like a fuel that keeps the fire called marriage burning to a very long extent.
So true,without the fuel there will be no fire.