A very intersante theme and complex EC brother, sometimes the appearances can deceive, but to us maybe, but to the God that sees everything and everything never knows, before that concept I have tried to stick to this biblical passage:
Matthew 7 1-2 Do not judge, for not being judged. For with the judgment with which you judge, you will be judged, and with the measure with which you measure, it will be measured to you.
The important thing is to firmly demonstrate what is disseminated as you do, because sometimes, although they are only words, they are as real as they are alive, and they attest to what they really are.