@jerrybanfield The minute you went outside of yourself for an answer, was the minute you denied your answer. The uncertainty was your answer. Allow me to explain:
I have a mantra you may want to apply: WHEN IN DOUBT, DON'T.
Another is: The uncertainty you mention is equal to: I DON'T KNOW...The answer is always found in this statement: DON’T…
Since you asked, I personally stand with the group who says: Don’t go to this one; but, take the time to plan to go to another one, in a location that would be pleasing to you. Just because ‘you bring good vibes to the community’ is not a reason to go.
And, btw, why not make plans to bring the loved ones with you?
Peace!
@spiritualmatters I appreciate your guidance and would love to bring the family but they are not available to come with!
I understand...One last thought I received in the Spirit on waking this morning...
It's algebraic in focus; and, should help with your final decision.
As a married person, you and your wife are ONE; therefore, the decisions made should be in sync to keep harmony in the relationship.
So, in brief:
Two positives = a positive
A positive and a negative = negative
Two negatives = positive
Let’s transfer this to your decision:
You want to go…your wife’s okay with you going…(+) Go
You want to go…your wife would appreciate you going another time…(-) Don’t go
You don’t want to go…your wife thinks that’s a good idea…yay! (+)
Happy wife...happy life :+)...
Prayers you’ll make the best decision.
Peace.