Thanks for the response! Not many bother to answer in detail.
I guess it's also a temperamental thing for me, I find it hard to do! Even in your example I'd probably just leave and let someone else handle it! :P
But I get your point. I'll try! At the very least I'll have someone to tell when I notice something! ;)
Btw, I just remembered, I think it was you, in a recent belated introduce-yourself post, you recommended or mentioned The Knick, I said I'd watch it, I did! Good show! Wouldn't say it's an argument against medicine tho. It was the necessary step to get to where we are...and we're still not there.