Hey thanks for coming over and reading, and many thanks for your feedback :D
I found your post via some route that involved @tanishqyeverma and your cross referrals/interactions on this subject, so you must be right 🌞 🌞 🌞 I've replied there again.
I'm figuring it out myself as we go along - it throws up challenges all the time, but I know that each episode passes, and the default position that I return to is neutral acceptance and no worries.
Amazing how the path went! I hope to get into a state of neutral acceptance and now worries :)