While it may be the case that she screwed up and should have informed you about her not being able to attend, I'm disappointed in the way you responded. We all have times where things don't go as planned, but for someone who knows nothing of steemit and reads this post, what do you think they will think of how you reacted?
You have a strong personality and are very funny and creative amongst many other great qualities on steemit. But that tirade is going to be there in the blockchain forever. It's far more important to discuss things as respectful adults.
I'm not trying to talk down to you, but I would be lying if I said I was not a bit disappointed in the way you handled yourself. I think it would have been better to discuss some of these things in steemit chat privately instead of making accusations here.
There are two sides to every story and I'm going to guess that you may lose some followers for doing this. Your posts in general make a lot of money and add a lot of value, but I think if you handled this in a slightly different way, it would have made you far more money.
I feel that what would be best for steemit is instead of cutting ties with @heidi-travels , apologize for some of the things you said when you were livid (we all get upset at things and overreact. I am this way too) and see if she might do a podcast with you.
For this to be a revolutionary social media, it should have people treated differently than other sites.
While I now fully believe @feminism is off his rocker, something like Trying To Understand @Feminism
I think you and @ heditravels @tuck-fheman @dollarvigilante and @stellabelle all doing a podcast and splitting the money would be awesome. Whether or not this could be agreed upon is another story, but hopefully you can at least see where I'm coming from, even if you staunchly disagree with my stance.