Great write Taraz. I quit trying to understand people a long time ago :) They change and the reasons for their behavior change, and they will never accept that, they will never admit, people are the wisest, the smartest, their decisions are always correct, and to most people you have to feel indebted because they are so good to you.
And you know the funny art is... they are. For themselves. But that is what matters right? Do we care too much for an opinion that is different than hours? 9 times out of 10 We don't. We all live in our small bubble, in our little universe, with our beliefs and our truth. Let people come, and let them go, as the only ones that will lose are the ones that go, the ones that lack integrity and stubborn character, as it is those people who build the community and the platform who stay no matter what. Stay for the people.
And here is a very good point. Those that go, the goodtime posters, will one day find that they get nothing out of being here for the invested are getting the support. Let them go.