I am a newbie (well, older account but very recently decided to be active) so I still have a hard time wondering what everyone is talking about, but I guess I'll find out soon with enough time spent here.
Whatever it seems to be, I've arrived at a time where most people seem happy with how voting works. I have no idea how to control my votes and continue to vote whenever I like things (but now will be more careful).
Thanks for your post!