Well.. humbleness is difficult sometimes since trying to be humble doesn't always result in humbleness.
I am not saying that directed at you as much as I am sharing my experiencing with striving to be humble.
In terms of whether you are doing anything "wrong" here, I usually don't believe in terms such as right or wrong, but I think you could improve your communication skills.
I want to improve my communication skills too, and it actually helps reading your comments since I can relate to your mentality.