I'm reminded again of something from back in my IT days... a second line manager whose motto more or less amounted to "don't being me PROBLEMS, bring me SOLUTIONS."
He didn't mind if there'd been a screw-up, as long as we came along with potential solutions. He came to mind as I wrote about gratitude (for Steemit) earlier today, and he just came to mind again as I read this post.
Nobody said this was going to be easy or that we would be handed anything on a plate, for free. If we don't like what we see, let's be part of the change; part of the solution to the problems.
Due to my start up background, I am used to seeing things get messy, too clean, back to messy. It is part of the process. Most important thing. Keep at it. Keep trying, make it work.
Sometimes we don't have to drive... So hard.