A lot of great comments and advice here. Steemit is difficult, especially if you spend most of your day working another job.
Chatting daily in Discord communities is extremely helpful.
PYPT in the Steemit Ramble Discord on Thursdays is a great place to hang out!
There are also a bunch of great radio shows on MSP-waves and the Steemstar network where you can hang out in the audience chat.
So, whenever you are feeling discouraged....just remember this quote from a wise person (you!):
"But I love this, and it is truly not work for me ;)"